Showing posts with label Psychology. Show all posts
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Encounters with Western Psychology

This blog summarizes forum discussions on the digestion of dharmic concepts and the stealth-appropriation of Hindu-Buddhist methods into western psychology - something that has been going on for a long time. Then the discussion also talks about practical ways and examples in which this digestion can be stopped. 

This post is divided into three parts below.

1. Rajiv Malhotra's lecture at SRCC on 'U-turn theory' provides a detailed description with evidence, on how the aforementioned digestion and appropriation has taken place. This gives the serious reader a background. For example, most in the world are unaware about the appropriation of dharmic ideas by Carl Jung.




2. In a March 2013 thread, Tripathi shared an interesting paper that Rajiv Malhotra introduced as follows:
"... A great bit of research that illustrates how Western Universalism (in this case in the field of psychology and ethics) has been wrongfully imposed upon other cultures. It is amazing how many "eminent" Indian psychologists have adopted such WU ideas."


".... interesting paper which states that broad claims about human psychology and behaviour based on narrow samples from Western societies are regularly published and questions the practise. It makes a very interesting read. Specially the term WEIRD (Western, educated, industrialized, rich and democratic) used for the folks of the west. Below is a part of the paper which you might like: 
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Research in moral psychology also indicates that non‐Western adults and Western religious conservatives rely on a wider range of moral principles than amorality of justice (Baek 2002, Haidt & Graham 2007, Haidt et al. 1993, e.g., Miller & Bersoff 1992). Shweder, Much, Mahapatra, and Park (1997) proposed that in addition to a dominant justice‐based morality, which they termed an ethic of autonomy,there are two other ethics that are commonly found outside the West: an ethic of communion, in which morality derives from the fulfilment of
interpersonal obligations, and an ethic of divinity in which moral decisions are based on the fit with a perceived natural order (for a further elaboration of moral foundations see Haidt & Graham 2007). In sum,the high‐SES, secular Western populations that have been the primary 27 Weird People 5-Mar-09 target of study thus far appear unusual in a global context, based on their peculiar reliance on a single foundation for moral reasoning (based on justice and individual rights).
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The paper also describes the commonalities and the nuances of American from the rest of the west. 

3. The summary was initiated by Dr. AB in a December 2013 thread in a discussion that spanned 3 months:
"I am a psychologist by profession and a Practicing Hindu...we everyday encounter 'digested' knowledge systems thrown at us in our professional life . Living in the west and practicing western psychology is different from how in India , these same concepts are adapted by and for Indians.

For example, ... in the field of psychosocial rehabilitation [PSR] for people with mental illness , [] has had the experience of applying the same constructs in India in a more holistic way than how it is practiced here in the west. This reality has made us discuss at length about the dharmic context in India, where we are able to influence better outcomes for PSR ,the reason being the context and not the PSR principles alone. We are now thinking of reframing this whole approach to PSR (psycho social rehabilitation) in India .
Like these , I can cite many instances where I come across appropriation of our own tantra and vipassana practices being called as mindfulness based stress reduction [programs] etc which is now becoming a core curriculum in school districts , both in Canada and in the US. We all know this.
The new form of therapy which is being researched with the intention of making it 'global' is called "Avataar therapy" ! Yes - this is already being rolled out in academia and therapy clinics to bring about behavior modification for people with psychosis, obsessive compulsive disorders, generalized anxiety disorders etc by using the virtual world media.

The Avataars are designed to help people suffering auditory hallucinations to engage with their own persecutory voices in a more comfortable way , than trying to make them go away . I would like to bring your attention that this is an ancient tantric practice of Kashmir shaivism (vijnana bhairava tantra) , where the mental formations of the mind is witnessed through 'saakshi bhaava' rather than controlling or trying to make them go away. ....at a conference recently....psychiatrist who is based in London dismissed what I was saying with the argument that the new therapy is a logical evolution of psycho drama etc. It was very evident to everyone that he was shutting me down, and I offered him the option to be intellectually honest to engage in a debate rather than shutting me down.

... what lens are we wearing when we are thinking of developing knowledge base and skill sets to understand different cultures? By generalizing cultural mores and traditions, we might miss the contexts of cultural development as a complex fluid process etc..."

Rajiv comment: "...  It is an area of my active research, both on how the west has adopted these techniques and how we can revive them within the dharma context.

I dont like the term "avatara" in the above context as it distorts.

I prefer the term "sakshi therapy" which is also something my guru taught and its a term we can use in this way without distortion. In fact, much of so-called western therapy today is drifting towards the sakshi method. I hope it is possible for Dr. AB.. to use "sakshi".

I am presenting at a workshop in UK in April on this matter, to scholars specializing in the interface between psychology and religion/dharma. Most of the people I will need to argue against happen to be Hindus, who are propagating "mithya = illusion", world negation, otherworld-liness, etc. -- westerners love them as they can easily supersede such nonsense, and quietly digest Hindu-Buddhist ideas into western frameworks. My job in this Western+Indian select group is largely to point flaws in the Indians who will be present."

Dr. KM responds:
"..I have been in private practice as a psychotherapist in [the US] for the last 20 years and now in the prosess of moving back to India for retirement. My experience resonates with that of [Dr.AB]. I felt at times uncomfortable, at times crossed the speaker, couple of times gave talk at our local counselor's association about eastern spirituality and it's usefulness in psychotherapy, and often used it in my practice without clearly naming so!

Rajivji's identifying, understanding, and naming this whole process as "digestion" is unique and brilliant. This has given me deeper and clear understanding to what was I experiencing. It has also given boost to my desire to spend some time and energy of my retirement years towards reading/writing/collaborating towards the psychotherapy clearly rooted in our dharmic belief system. .."

Venkat shares an article:
The Americanization of Mental Illness

Dr. R (behavioral scientist) responds:
"I am one [of] a group of behavioural scientists working with the laboratory learning method. Our work is deep and transformative, but we are not therapists. I work with the yoga Sutras as the basis of my work, however, even among my colleagues the ideas from yoga are not as internalized as the western theories. The learning of our scripture from an authentic source is rare. The ideas that are internalized from their own families is not well founded. Books in English then form the source of their learning. The average translation even by the various Anandas is poor.

Not all of my colleagues have read read BD [Being Different book]. And the idea of India is often held in deep self hate. All of this makes the going very difficult when one is training the new generation. It will be a great to work on a theory that is based entirely on our scriptures and our practice....How can we share notes and develop a coherent theory and practice?"

Rajiv comment: Start with your OWN institution. Why is a western style degree required to be considered a legitimate scholar? Why is the Indian notion of an accomplished practicing yogi or someone with knowledge but not western-style certified insufficient? This fetish for western style certification even in Indian matters is a deep rooted form of colonization." 

Dr. CRS shares his experience:
"I work in the research field of Post traumatic stress disorder & Systems Biology.... The Systems Biology concept is more-so similar to Ayurveda in the context that both preaches holistic health. Difference is that the combination of Yoga and Ayurveda has higher success rate in preventing/curing diseases than the Molecular biology/Translational systems biology approach. Over these years, I have increasingly realized that Yoga and Ayurveda are the best cure available for Psychological disorders.

This research frontier is going to boom in the next 10 years especially because of the funding given by US government for the BRAIN initiative Such perks are going to pressurize researchers to look into alternative medicine and facilitate accelerated digestion of Indian concepts practiced by Gurus.

I believe that one way to retain our Native Apps in the Dharmic OS framework, is to perform scientific research (by setting up dedicated research institutes/departments) on these concepts and publish extensively. People like Benson & Denninger have to be beaten in their game by playing our strengths by engaging the best philosophers like Rajivji, the best Indian Gurus, best Indian doctors across the globe (with unique characteristics not seen in US /Europeans), best Indian IT people, botanist (studying herbs). The collaboration of such interdisciplinary team will produce significant results.


Another simple way is prevention of diseases and this frontier is effectively being led by Baba Ramdev at the grassroots level by encouraging people towards Yoga & Ayurveda."


Dr. AB follows up:
"In my therapy work, I use the core tenets of Advaita like "Tat team Asi","Sat chid Ananda " "mitya" etc as frameworks to experience self. Some of my clients have found this framework significantly different from the so called evidence based practices like cognitive behavioural therapy , dialectical behaviour therapy (by the way, this particular mode of therapy uses mindfulness as its core tenet for borderline personality disorders) etc.
...
Today I came to know that an organization in California has customized a training program for mindfulness for all schools in North America. This is now a sought after training program which is offered online for school districts, mental health professionals etc. 
I have already started reading IN (Indra's Net). The poison pill and porcupine strategy has to be applied creatively in this field too.

Rajiv responds:.. I am doing a book on how Hindu-Buddhist ideas are getting digested/distorted."

Dr. J adds:
"I have also been trained and engaged in psychotherapy, and had similar observations. I keep looking for ways to channelize it. [], where I am teaching a course 'Mind, Life and Consciousness'...: The course content is heavily dependent on Indian systems of psychological knowledge. I am having my observations and learning in the process. I would be happy to collaborate and share notes with anyone interested in this field."


NS adds:
"I .. have read 9 chapters [of Indra's Net] till 'Traditional foundations of social consciousness'  and I find it such an admirable companion of BI (Breaking India) and BD. Having tread BI and BD , I feel one may read IN first and thereafter go to BD. From, my point of view In is an extraordinary review of BD and BI and its most admirable feature is its its beautiful narration that does not take away its scholarly content. " 

Dr. AB shares important feedback:
"..a heart rending story of a woman who was murdered because she tried to write a thesis on the dispossession of Indigenous women in Canada. It strikes parallel to what's going on for Hindus , the motive to eliminate us and our symbols methodically.

I feel for the indigenous people in North America. Their story resonates so deeply with ours. .. a theme in their stories- they see  all their mental health issues  stemming from loss of their indigenous culture and world views.  They do not connect to the western interpretation of their problems. They are quite vocal and articulate about the superficiality or even the credibility of western solutions to their problems. 

It's interesting that this is where we differ in India. Our deeply entrenched colonized mindsets do not get the layers and nuances of colonization and its impact on our mental health. Here, I see an opportunity to do some Conscious raising programs in the field.."

Ananth asks Dr. AB:
"You have mentioned that you use Indic concepts in your work, e.g., vijnana sakshi tantra, sat chit ananda, etc.  Have you used these concepts on your Indigenous clients?  If so, did the clients relate well to them? Or did Indic concepts help you to get a good command of your clients' problems?"

Dr. AB provides a detailed response and provides some amazing feedback on the practical use of non-translatables, poison-pill strategy (in Indra's Net), and other ideas introduced by Rajiv Malhotra in 'Being Different'.

"I have used the concepts of Atma, Sakshi bhaava, understanding the different mental states as vritti and the nature of vritti etc, which my clients can apply in the moment as opposed to a cognitive exercise.
I go back and forth to explore various concepts depending on what my clients are ready for. Some of them are ready for doing some advanced vijnana Bharirva tantra practices like Dharana on negative states of mind. They discover that through dharana, the sakshi bhava gets strengthened and there by they can see the mental states as dynamically changing. Some of them cannot move being Shavasana!
For those who are ready and willing,I sometimes even go further, to use a mantra of their choice while they are doing dharana. ...They begin to understand the 'mithya' nature of these inner experiences and are then able to see the one who labels each experience negatively or positively.
These concepts are well taken both by Indians and also westerners. I have seen that the westerners have a hard time to see the experience as different from themselves. This is where I introduce our terminologies and not use English. The minute you give them English translation, they objectify the knowledge, rather than go into the experience. I have also noted that some of these practices creates resistance for them. They still want to hold on to their core beliefs.
I had an [middle east] client, who was very open and articulate about her inner experiences through the Indic practices. At some time, she brought up great resistance, when we were exploring the concepts of Advaita....She could not bring herself to consider that that at some level all beings are interconnected,... That's when she began to distance herself from the process and terminated the sessions with me. ... I fully accepted her limitations and had a closure with her.  Now, I appreciate the poison pill strategy. She could not be part of the open architecture. She excluded herself out!
I also want to highlight the importance of using non-translatables. Recently I had a client who had suicidal ideation. This person is an Indian and we started exploring the meaning of the word "atma hatya'. I allowed this person to first understand what Atma means and then went on to further inquire whether it is then possible that atma and hatya could go together. This was such a revelation to this person about the paradox in the term itself. It is a myth going on in western academia that certain cultures are intolerant and have a big taboo around suicide. However, the reality is , on inquiring honestly about self (through our worldview not the western worldview) , killing oneself is a fallacy. This is the power of using our own non-translatables in this work. I will stop here. I am fascinated by what we can achieve to re-create a Grand Narrative through different streams of knowledge."

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Recommended reading related to this topic at the forum:
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Rajiv Malhotra's Video Lectures Not Specific to Hinduism

Rajiv Malhotra has shared a list of his videos not specific to Hinduism here. We have provided the Youtube links for now. They still need to be cataloged and indexed. He notes:
" ..Someone recently wanted to see a list of my videos that are not specific to Hinduism. A problem with such partitioning is that my work does not neatly fall into "disciplines" as defined in western education. Dharma for instance permeates so many fields, making it tough to segregate. However, I supplied the following examples in response to the request. This is just fyi."

(Date stamp: May 2013)

RMF Summary: Week of March 23 - 29, 2013

March 24 (continuing discussion)
Pope Francis calls for "respect" for all religions
Is it the first time that a pope said something like this? If true Rajivji's stand on mutual respect is accepted:Pope Francis calls for 'respect...

Tariyal comments: "... pope will never give equal respect to the Dharmic people. This is because of the fundamental dogma of Christianity that man is a born sinner and he or she can only be saved through Jesus Christ. Also the old testament forbids worshipping of false gods. To give equal respect to us will mean they would not be Christians any more. So an avowed Christian respecting our Dharmic traditions is an oxymoron. Cannot happen. Can only happen if the person will give up the core dogma, which means he or she is not a Christian anymore."

Alex responds: "Reg. [] Tariyal's following comments, I would like to, as a Christian respectfully offer the following comments:

"A true Christian especially a pope will never give equal respect to the Dharmic people."

While I do not know whether the new Pope is hypocritical or not when he spoke about respecting all faiths, but I do know that Dr. Tariyal is factually
incorrect when he says that a "true Christian will never give equal respect to the Dharmic people".

There are hundreds of millions of "true" Christians all over the world, who do take seriously the admonitions of Jesus of Nazareth to "do unto others as you would have them do unto you" & "love thy neighbor as thyself". They are all required to give equal respect to followers of all faiths, Dharmic religions included.

.... Jesus was preaching to the Jews in the role of a Rabbi who was trying to reform the Jewish religion. He did not "establish" Christianity. His followers established that faith which got interpreted in many different ways and
generated many sects of Christianity, just as it happened in all religions including Sanatana Dharma.

.... Those statements of Dr. Tariyal, I submit are based on his own interpretation of Christianity. And, it is very unfortunate that Dr.Tariyal has been too quick to
generalize without perhaps having interacted with true followers of the tenets of Jesus who value more than anything, first, the golden rule of do unto others
as you would have them do unto you and second,to love thy neighbor as thyself.

Such Christians are in the millions and so are many millions in the Dharmic faiths who do not hold []Tariyal's views nor are they as vehement as he is in
asserting as to who is a Christian and who is not.

Belief in God is a deeply personal matter and respecting one's neighbor requires the humility not to be judgmental in proclaiming who is a true follower of one religion or another. That is best left to the believer and his or her
conscience.

Not withstanding Dr.Tariyal's assertion, I as a follower of the tenets of Jesus of Nazareth, do respect and love people of all faiths and I also respect and love those who profess no faith in God. ..."

Rajiv comment: ... So how do I recommend reconciling these views?

Though Tariyal ji means well, I find that most Hindus lack adequate understanding of Christianity, and hence they conflate too many things into simplistic categories. To be able to discuss with credibility in well-informed
forums, Hindus must learn the important differences among each of the following aspects of Christianity:

1) Jesus' own utterances.
2) Bible as a collection of utterances by many voices of which Jesus is just one. (This means Bible cannot be seen as shruti, but evaluated as smriti - like a purana perhaps.) Pls note that there are many persons who reject Bible as
literal word while worshiping Jesus.
3) Theologies formulated by numerous persons since Jesus onwards.
4) Belief systems of the Catholic Church.
5) Belief systems of the Eastern Orthodox Church. (Alex belongs here.)
6) Belief systems of the mainline Protestant Churches.
7) Belief systems of the non-mainline Protestants - pentacostals, mormons, etc.
8) Philosophies of numerous Christian rebels today, who in turn are also having many diverse views amongst themselves...

It is better to articulate an issue, and invite the other party to respond with a stand. Let each Christian thus be able to decide for himself where he stands.

In this spirit. I request Alex to inform us of his stand (which may have nothing to do with some institutional "Christianity" per se) on the Nicene Creed as it
relates to Hindu tenets. Specifically:
- does he accept it literally or metaphorically?
- what is the status of Hindu avataras, deities such as Shiva, Devi, etc?
- how does he see principles like karma-reincarnation?
- what is his position on conversions being done in India?"

Maria adds:
"Alex is right that there are millions of ‘respectful’ Christians who love Jesus and would never convert anyone. However, that is not the point.  Christianity and Islam (and each sect of them) claim that they are the only true faith. They indoctrinate their flock. Before each mentioning of “Catholic Church” in Germany, there was the prefix “alleinseligmachende”, which means “which can alone give salvation”. .....Most Christians at least in Europe, would not condone conversion; in fact, many do not even believe that conversion is still happening today.

The point is that the different Churches are on a conversion spree in India and probably in many other places, too. So if the Pope wants to give respect, he cannot possibly condone trying by hook and crook (that’s what happens) to convert Hindus. He would have to make an announcement to this effect if he was sincere..."



Alex responds to Rajiv:
"...my article on Proselytization in India which was subsequently published in Sulekha. Its link is provided below. .... recommend that they read the last page where I have sought the inclusion of a prohibition against Proselytization in the UN's Declaration of Human Rights. The link below will answer the last item on your list, viz., my position on religious conversions in India.

... Reg. Nicene Creed, though my Church believes in the Nicene Creed (431 CE) I do not! The Church has every right to ex-communicate me if it chooses to do so for
that... But, there are far too many like me who do not subscribe to everything that the Church demands. I also do not believe as many others also do not, that the Bible is inerrant. Thank God, the Eastern Orthodox Churches do not believe in the infallibility of their Patriarchs! For me, the Jefferson's Bible is quite sufficient for my understanding of the teachings of Jesus.

Reg. Hindu avatars, deities, Shiva, Devi etc…the way I understand avatars is that they are different manifestations of the transcendent God...

For me, Shiva is the Supreme God of Shaivites, also called Mahadeva. Devi (if you mean Shiva's consort Parvati) is the Supreme manifestation of Shakti which
showers unconditional love on all her children. Interestingly, in the Eastern Orthodox Christianity, the Holy Spirit is called Shekinah (feminine) as is the case in Judaism. Shekinah is also endowed with the power of showering unconditional love on all of `creation".

Reg. Karma, I do not see any contradiction between that concept in Sanatana Dharma and orthodox Christianity. For e.g., In Galatians (6:7) it is stated that "For whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap". I also believe that one does not have to wait for the next birth to reap the outcomes of one's action.

Reg. Reincarnation, there is some evidence in the Bible, that the Jews also believed in reincarnation. For e.g. In Matthew 11:14, Jesus speculated that John the Baptist could be Elijah, the Old Testament prophet reincarnated! In John 9:2, some disciples of Jesus brought a blind man to be healed by Jesus and asked Jesus, "whose sin is this, this man's or his parent's?" I tend to believe in both more than I reject them outright. But, in my Eastern Orthodox Church, both Karma and Reincarnation are not accepted.

..While all religions preach that in one form or another, it is unfortunate that both the golden rule of treating others as you would like to be treated and being a true and loving neighbor are both breached more often than they are followed. ... I am an American of Christian faith and
a Hindu by culture. That self-identification is my privilege and not of the Church or any one else for that matter."

Rajiv comment: I am glad Alex accepted the invite to respond to questions. This egroup should be a forum for respectful discussions even when we disagree. Let
us maintain that tone and continue the thread. "

Maria asks Alex:
"... intrigued why you still identify as a Christian, even though you (like me) fall clearly into the ‘heretics’ category and if we had lived a few centuries earlier, our lives would have been in danger. I may oversimplify again (my forte, Rajivji), but in my view whatever is good and helpful in Christianity is there already since long in Hindu Dharma (and there is even much much more that is helpful) and what is bad and divisive in Christianity, both of us have rejected. But since there is no pick and choose option in Christianity, both of us are basically not Christians anymore.
... could you imagine considering yourself a Hindu by culture who has Jesus as his Ishta devata? Keeping all songs, prayers, rituals, but considering him as one among many different ‘ways’ that can lead to the truth? ...."

Alex answers:
".....there is no religion that has all its followers adhering to everything that religions demand or their "dogmas" dictate. Sanatana Dharma is no exception to this.

All faiths, including Christianity and its different denominations have their own "dogmas". ... rational human beings think for themselves as to what is sensible and what is not for them to maintain their relationship with their understanding of "God".

In fact, I know that even among Christians (as in other faiths) there are agnostics who still go to their places of worship for social reasons or as an "insurance" against their "wrong bets"! ...

Do all Sanatana Dharmis, be they Shaivites, Vaishnavites, Lingayats, or whatever, do they follow all of their respective "creedal" requirements? No, they do not. If one were to apply your logic, they should not consider themselves Sanatana Dharmis. (I make a distinction between Hinduism which is a culture of the Indian subcontinent and Sanatana Dharma which is the religion of the large majority of the people of the Indian subcontinent.)

I would also venture to say that the large majority of most of the World's Religions do not follow everything that their respective religions proclaim as their "dogmas". As to your assertion, that there is no "pick and choose" option in Christianity, I submit that you are in error, that is if you have observed the behavior of "practicing Christians". For example, this is the season of Lent. Do you really believe that all "practicing" Christians observe fasting and or avoid eating meat, fish etc?

Finally, why I remain a Christian you ask... I find that the more I read Advaita Vedanta, the more congruence I find between the seminal sayings of Jesus and what I find in Vedanta. I see my religious identity and other identities as "my" labels and I see no reason to change any of them: I am an Indian by birth, American by naturalization, Christian by faith and Hindu by culture. ... I am not ashamed of any of my identities, nor will I ever consider courteous for anyone else to define the "purity" of my faith or challenge the legitimacy of any of my identities since I have earned them all by legitimate and rational means. ..." 

tvikhanas asks Alex:
" 1. You admit that Bible is fallible but at the same time you feel compelled to see traces of karma and reincarnation in Bible (a position contradicting the
official position). Why do you feel the need to find these ideas in Bible?

2. You say you are culturally a Hindu. What does it translate to in practice? How do we prevent main stream predatory churches from using that as a shield for
inculturation?

3. Is it even possible to separate Hindu thought into "cultural" and "religious" buckets? These concepts like "secularism" evolved in an different milleu and cannot be applied so easily to India. As an organically evolving entity, every aspect of Indic "culture" is tied to "religion"; there is no clean demarcation.
Thus, the reason for putting bindi/tilak is not merely cultural or fashion.

4. Through the examples of narrow minded Hindus you claim that even the so called followers of Dharma are not really following it and that one can follow Dharma even though one doesn't belong to the traditional schools. This I think every true follower of Dharma will grant: there are no clubs to belong to be "dharmic". But the reverse is not true. If you belong to some clubs you will be
prevented from following (or at least it will be very hard) Dharma. ...Does that bother you?

5. As you pointed out there are narrow minded individuals among Hindus as well and as you say that's human nature. The question is are these lower impulses
empowered by the religion. In case of Hinduism there is no sanction for them. There is no main stream text or acharya that sanctions narrow minded sectarianism and vast majority freely visit all temples. The same is not true
for Christianity and Islam which explicitly exploit the lowest fears & drives in their quest for domination. And the fruits of these religions can be seen in their core followers. " 

Surya responds to Alex:
"...You most certainly do not have to justify your faith to anyone. You do not have to justify or feel compelled to explain and defend your faith in Jesus as your savior. It is entirely your choice and you choice will be respected on this board because you have respected the freedom and
choice of those who follow Dharma traditions. That is the only way for mutual respect.

You see the sad predicament though. When you take proselytization and digestion out, there is no need to fight, be on the offensive. Restraint in your comments as you fend off attacks shows that.

Dharma traditions face the same. Unfortunately, the digesting or proselytizing religions (or sects) do not relent. They see the failure of the other side to respond as an opportunity to go for a kill. To be clear, digestion also exists in the secular variant of Western Universalism which is focused on hegemony and civilizational intolerance. Proselytization and digestion are offensive,
intolerant, and disrespectful.

.....Unfortunately, many Christians of Indian descent are becoming increasingly this way too. Hopefully, forum members read your comments and see you in a different light." 

Rajiv responds:
"I agree with Surya below that we should close this thread and it has served a good purpose. My own conclusions are:
- Alex is not required to defend all Christians or the Church, when he has already written extensively against proselytizing. When a man distances himself from some institution, its silly asking him to defend that institution or blame him for the conduct of other members.
- Given the above, he is only explaining his own PERSONAL faith, and the rest is rendered irrelevant.
- We need to encourage more Christians to be like him, i.e. challenge from within that system of belief.
- Asking him to become like us means having one less Christian ally and just one more Hindu.
- Having said all this, I want to now clarify: Alex's "sameness" is from Christianity leading towards Hinduism. I WOULD NOT ENCOURAGE THE REVERSE DIRECTION, I.E. WHERE HINDUS ADVOCATE SAMENESS TOWARDS CHRISTIANITY. Yes, this is a double standard but I am prepared to defend it. While Christians are well
grounded in identity based on history-centrism, most Hindus are confused/morons. Therefore, advocating sameness is ill-advised now. Playing the game of diplomacy towards other faiths requires expertise that is well over the heads of most Hindus, incl most Hindu leaders. So its best avoided until we first achieve a
much higher standard of identity formation. That is the goal for BD to initiate." 

Arun comments:
"In the spirit of Being Different, we would recognize and appreciate the many strains of Christianity, and know that some of them do live with mutual respect with us; and some of them don't. (This is a matter of lived experience, and not a matter that can be decided by theory.)

Further, we do not grant the followers of the intolerant varieties of Christianity the power to decide "who is a true Christian"? They can make their judgment, we are not obliged to accept it.

Incidentally, we make the same mistake with Islam - we implicitly or explicitly agree with the fundamentalists that they own the definition of "who is a true Muslim? " .." 

Anantha asks:
"I've heard a lot of people say "I'm culturally Hindu but Christian by religion". However, it strikes me as extremely telling that I have never heard anyone say "I'm culturally Christian but Hindu by religion". ... is it indeed possible to be "Christian by culture and Hindu by religion"? If yes, then what does living such a life entail?" 

Surya responds to Anantha's question:
"Rajivji's concepts of integral and synthetic unity explain your questions.

For Dharma traditions culture is not separate from their traditions.  Much has been written on this forum on how music, dance, and other art forms are integral to Dharma traditions. Thus, one cannot separate "religion" from "culture" with Dharma traditions.  A Hindu is confused to hear such statements because, even unknowingly, such integral unity is deep rooted.   

Ravi Zachariah, a Christian apologist, said that when other religions were absorbed into Christianity only their culture was retained in Christianity.  He uses this to explain to new converts to drop their "religion" but keep the culture if they want.  Rajivji calls this synthetic unity which could be for any number of reasons including opportunistic maneuvering.  In India, this is going on in the name of inculturation.

Rajivji explains that inculturation of integral aspects of Dharma is really digestion.  Digestion has happened before.  Pagan religions disappeared but the "Christmas tree" has been digested and still survives.

Rajivji has explained as "Himsa" when something integral such as Bharatanatyam is being separated out and treated as secular art form.  A Hindu is flabbergasted to see Jesus mudras in Bharatanatyam not because Christianity will gain social acceptance but because what is integral to Dharma has  been split asunder."
 
Venkat notes:
"This seems to a case of moderate peaceful Christians vs fundamentalist conversion prone Christians, in this case also good cop vs bad cop.

In India at least, we seldom hear the voices of such moderate peaceful Christians talking against conversions, let alone against the fundamentalists and the harm they are doing to society..."
 
Rajiv comment: Agreed.

So can we encourage some good cops to break ranks and publicly turn hostile against the proselytizing bad cops? I have seen Alex do just that since the past 2 decades.

This INTERNAL dissent from within Christianity is helpful to us, and we must encourage this. We are not strong enough in the kurukshetra by ourselves to fight the might of well-entrenched powerful nexuses, and we do need allies. "
 
Wadhwa asks:
".... I would also like to know  stand of Mr.Alex on the following point: 
 
"Shall mere faith in Christ lead to canceling  or negating  ones sins or bad karmas"? 
 
Here I would like to add that in a 3 day debate between Swami Dayanand Saraswati and  Dr.T.J. Scott(a Christian missionary), in August 1879, at Barilly one of the subjects discussed was: 'Can sins be pardoned through Grace or repentence?'  The stand of Swamji was that mere faith in Christ cannot help any one in undoing the effect of ones sins or bad karmas. He said that inevitably, every one gets punishment or reward as per each  deed or karma."
 
Alex responds:
"As to your question reg. "mere faith in Christ alone lead to canceling one's sins/karma etc".

My answer is NO. And, I believe that I can find you support in the New Testament (see: James 2:20., "O vain man, faith without works is dead".) But, please read
the verses above to get the context of my assertion.

I will hasten to add that there are passages elsewhere in the Bible where faith alone will suffice!

In the scriptures of all the world's major faiths, one can find contradictions in texts and the beliefs of its followers. Sanatana Dharma is no exception to this.

May I ask you two questions to highlight this point: 1)why do millions of followers of Sanatana Dharma dip in the Ganges River during Kumbh Mela and believe that by doing so their sins will be forgiven and at least some of their bad karma can be wiped out?

2) Why does the most pluralistic of all faiths that I know and admire greatly (Sanatana Dharma)have sects like Lingayats who shun Krishna/Vishnu and Ayyangars
who shun the worship of Shiva? In my neighborhood, I was glad to see the construction of a Shiva-Vishnu temple, but soon after its construction,the south
Indians Shaivites split off and constructed a Murugan Temple (brother of Ganesh) within the stone throw of the Shiva-Vishnu temple!

All faiths have human failings being superimposed on their respective belief systems. Therefore, in my humble opinion, it is counter-productive to throw stones at the belief systems of others. Worse still is the penchant of some to judge others as to who is a true Christian, true Muslim or true follower of Sanatana Dharma. A fully evolved follower of any faith will know that it is the
height of ignorance to judge another person's purity of faith.

Unlike others who are ridden with "avidya" I would dare not brand or call them as being not "true followers" of Sanatana Dharma because my common code of ethics (not just my faith) has taught me not to judge another's faith or lack of it. If you have the time, please answer my question. Thanks." 

Tariyal responds:
"I agree with the comments of Alex. However, he is defining Christians in his own convenient way. As a follower of teaching of Christ he is correct that millions of people may follow what he follows as a person, and he has elected to call himself a Christian. However, the meaning of Christian as defined by the current Churches, be it Catholic or the various Protestant ones requires that the person believe in the central dogma of Christianity....
.. In summary I do not disagree with the basic sense of Comments by Alex, but I define a true Christian as a follower of the accepted Christian Dogma. And with that Caveat I stand by my comments."
 
Alex responds:
".... The Baptists, Mormons, Pentecostals, Jehovah's witnesses, Church of Christ, & Seventh Day Adventists do not accept the Nicene Creed. A few of these sects do not believe in the Trinity as well. They also call themselves Christians.

Majority of Eastern Orthodox scholars accept inclusivism. While holding the view to the centrality of Christ for themselves,they acknowledge that salvation
can be found outside of Christianity. And, I must add that they do not proselytize.

Contrary to your assertion, there is no accepted dogma to subscribe to for anyone to call himself/herself as a true Christian. It is between the follower of that faith and his conscience to determine as to whether he or she is being
true to his/her ishta Devata.

I would never ever dare to judge you or assert that you are not behaving as a true follower of Sanatana Dharma because of your expressed eagerness to judge
others like me, since that can be construed as due to avidya, a common failing of the human condition brought about by one's inability to subordinate one's ego.

..... By the way, if you would google the World Council of Churches (WCC), and query "salvification outside the church" you will be surprised to find that there are many other Christian sects (besides mine) which concede that there are indeed other faith systems by which a human being can find salvation. Unfortunately, the Roman Catholic Church is not yet a full member of the WCC. Hope Pope Francis will join that organization which also has come out against proselytization, but not to the extent that I would like WCC to do...." 

March 25
Saket asks: In Hindu traditions the practice is to cremate the body after death. However I have observed that when a human is less than one year old that is navjat , in Hindu traditions he is buried.  Can someone highlight why this minor exception is made in case of navjat?  

Devendra responds:
"Hindu traditions do have reasons behind their rituals. Death ceremony is also considered an important ritual. One reason behind burial of a child,as opposed to cremation,upon his death is that he has not yet developed attachment to his body,so there is no need to destroy it by cremation..."

Vishwa adds:
"Do note that the pre-Vedic Indus Valley civilization had many burial grounds. Burial was quite a common practice in that civilization." 

KK comments:
"For infants and Sanyasis and Saints, there is no unfulfilled/pending Karma that might attract the 'Jeeva' to hover around the dead body, hence no harm in burying. In the case of Sant-Mahaatmaas, even their 'dead' body helps the followers by inspiring duty/devotion.

For all others, merging with Pancha Bhootas/the last Yaaga is one thing as also the possibility that if they are unable to let go of their Naama-Roopa even after physical death burning on a pyre might ensure an easier onward journey.....nothing to 'go back to'
Pregnant women are also not cremated,... " 

Ashok adds: "......perhaps we ought to look at ourselves a bit to see why is it that Hindus convert. Could it be that we do treat some if our own less favourably and they do not feel supported?
As Rajiv ji has earlier pointed out, there are two levels of religion. One consists of those like me who just practice it (and are the vast majority, the followers) and those that deal with it at a higher level and are in a position to discuss issues with their counterparts in other religions. These would be our Akhara leaders, our saints, our Shankaracharyas and our intellectuals like Rajiv ji. As a 'follower' I would only interact with 'followers' of other religions. Anyway, coming back to the point, today I feel betrayed by those in power in my own religion. And I am neither the oppressed nor financially challenged. 
Perhaps we need to look at ourselves and discuss ways of supporting our oppressed brethren in addition to of course supporting our intellectuals with our voice thoughts,minds and pockets. "

[there are some personal and poignant discussions here that are left out].
 
 
March 27
Interesting paper questioning Western Universalism in Psychology
Alakshendra shares: I just came across this interesting paper which states that broad claims about human psychology and behaviour based on narrow samples from Western societies are regularly published and questions the practise. It makes a very interesting read. Specially the term WEIRD (Western, educated, industrialized, rich and democratic) used for the folks of the west ...

Below is a part of the paper which you might like:
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Research in moral psychology also indicates that non-Western adults and Western religious conservatives rely on a wider range of moral principles than amorality of justice ..... In sum,the high,secular Western populations that have been the primary target of study thus far appear unusual in a global context, based on their peculiar reliance on a single foundation for moral reasoning (based on justice and individual rights).
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The paper also describes the commonalities and the nuances of American from the rest of the west"

Rajiv adds: "A great bit of research that illustrates how Western Universalism (in this case in the field of psychology and ethics) has been wrongfully imposed upon other cultures. It is amazing how many "eminent" Indian psychologists have adopted such WU ideas."
 
March 27
video of padre casper raj who is seen in every riot out of TN.
Chandra shares: video of padre casper raj who is seen in every riot out of TN. Embroiled in 2G scam too. Should Lankan players be made hostage to politics? ... 



 

RMF Summary: Week of January 15 - 21, 2013

January 17
"US Marriage Efforts and Being Different Connection
Saket shares:".... came across this article in latest Economist issue titled :Marriage in America, The fraying knot: America's marriage rate is falling and its out-of-wedlock birth rate is soaring...

...Being from field of economics there appears to an interesting connection between this article and discussion of frictions between scientific discovery and Church in Being Different. I feel this friction has wider dimension and this apparent from this article. The following is direct quote from the article:
the workshop's leader, Boston Snowden, told his charges, "We're not trying to make you get married. We're trying to show you there's research that shows that there are definitely a lot of benefits to marriage.

As Mr Snowden's careful phrasing suggests, the politics of marriage promotion is tricky. Some bristle even at the phrase marriage promotion, hearing in it browbeaten sinners being forced into church and down the aisle. ..

Thus if one reads between the lines the the idea of original sin is now the biggest stumbling block in running a programme that is trying to arrest this sorry trend in collapse of family in US.

In contrast, if one looks at Dharmic traditions family is basic building block of a society and considerable efforts were made to preserve this building block in Smritis. The basic building block in standard western economic theory is utility/profit maximizing individual.

Not recognizing this has costed US economy very dearly which can be described as - Nationalized family and a privatized economy.

Thus one finds that even in field of economics Dharmic traditions can never been in friction apart from scientific discovery already discussed in Being Different. The importance of family is also captured in concept of Karma Chakra expounded in Gita."

[this thread cites an interesting article by Madhu Kishwar in The Hindu]

January 17
Imperious Authoritarianism in the Garb of Modernity
Chandramauli shares:
Ideas from the book "Being Different" trickles into MSM

Imperious Authoritarianism in the Garb of Modernity
Pleading protection from the New Missionaries of Uniformity
An edited version of this article appeared in The Hindu .."

This same article is discussed in another thread.
Don t like this temple? Choose another

January 18
Varahamihira Indian
Alok shares: ".... I was looking for Rajput history in the internet (which does not find a space in the ICSE curriculum of history), and came across an article on Indian astronomer Varahamihira. The author Dr. Samar Abbas claims that Varahamihira had an Iranian origin and whole of Indian astronomy or Vedic astronomy is borrowed one. To support his point he has quoted Dr. Rajesh Kochar and others. Below I am providing the link which does not have any space for readers response..."


Ganesh provides feedback:
Attaching couple of files related to Varahamihira

If you are interested you could buy this book titled "Brhat Samhita" of Varahamihira published by Motilal Banarsidass publications.."
Utsav makes a point:
"It also needs to be understood that the "indian" or as I would be more appropriately call Hindu civilization, extended from the Oxys (river) to the far East. So it really does not matter whether Varahmihira came from Persian background or not. His intellect and inquisitiveness was framed by the Dharmic ethos.

This is the problem of limiting civilizational entities to geographical boundaries. Tomorrow when Kashmir ceases to be part of "India", will we start disowning everything that the Hindus in Kashmir achieved?

Rajiv comment: An important point. This is why in the 1990s I popularized the term Indic Civilization to show that India's political boundaries are not the limits of a worldview, just like Abrahamic religions claim to have no geographical boundaries, and so does science, etc. The Indic term caught on and now many people use it. But then I decided to move to dharma civilization as my term because dharma is well explained in our traditions. (Of course this new term is also getting appropriated sometimes by activities that might not be in our best interest. So we must remain vigilant.) The point in the post above has merit. It is important historically to research locations of people/developments. But even if a given person were deemed to have come from outside present day India, that would not mean that his tradition was other than
dharmic. Here the criteria becomes important as to what qualifies as dharma. I decided in BD not to base the criteria on history or geography."

January 18
Sudhir Kakar - good parenting
Neel posts: "... I am a young parent-to-be, and my concerns are sprouting primarily from the "item number" influences that my 5 y/o niece is showing. ... There was a NDTV show last night on this topic, and amongst all the seven or so panelists and bollywood people, Sudhir Kakar made most sense from the socio-psychology perspective.

An example of Kakar's spiritual belief is here -
I haven't studied Kakar's work before. And I would highly appreciate any pointers, views/review, personal reflections..."

Rajiv's response:
I have interacted with Kakar who is well known as India's leading psychoanalyst using western models including Freud,and as Wendy Doniger's main Indian collaborator. The issue I raised with him was on his critique of Hinduism. When he responded that people from all religions make such critiques of their own religion, I asked him to supply me a comparable critique by Indian Muslims on Islam. He sent me the reference of a recent book by an Indian Muslim. After I read it, I wrote back to him that the book had no complaint about Islam's central tenets, and it was complaining about society in general. He did not respond. However, such differences are routine and not a big deal.

What specifically concerns me about his work on Indian psychology is that is does not show a deep understanding of dharma on his part. To get into details on where we disagree you would need to read BD to know where I am coming from and then be able to appreciate why I disagree with him. I dont think he knows the Indian mind very well. He is trying to validate western psychoanalytical theories that he has popularized in India across the academy of Indian psychology.

I am on the aide of the counter movement that studies and promotes Indian models of psychology, and in this regard Infinity Foundation has sponsored over a dozen conferences, books, individual scholars, etc for well over a decade. Unfortunately we ran out of funds, so we could not continue. But meanwhile, there is now a robust group of scholars with annual meetings who are pursuing the field known as Indian Psychology - i.e. not based on western models. One of my main contacts in this is Prof. Suneet Varma of Delhi University who is active in organizing such events. Those interested to help should fund his activities. Kundan Singh of this forum is another champion of this counter movement.

Bottom line: Kakar represents the old guard of Indians who wanted to prove their credentials to other Indians by demonstrating how much Western theory they have mastered, and how much the Western academy loves them with recognition. This does not diminish his many accomplishments for which he deserves credit... "

Saket responds:
"On this very important comment posted by Shri Rajiv Malhotra, I would like to share link ... on Indian Psychology Institute which I guess is outcome of the efforts by Infinity Foundation. I am myself exploring the concepts of Indian psychology and their connections with Hindu Economics models in line with burgeoning field of Behavioral Economics in West. I dont have much to offer but could be a good exploratory direction..."

Sandeep responds:
"In the NDTV video you provided, Sudhir Kakak quoted a perceptive remark by Rabindranath Tagore: " We have borrowed their (western) spectacles but lost our eyesight"

I have read many of Kakar's works. Kakar says that in India men are afflicted by the Ganesha complex as opposed to the Oedipus complex in the West, because in India the son remains enmeshed with the mother long into adulthood.

In his essay on "Indianness", he outlined the cultural beliefs that get ingrained in the Indian psyche :
"Some of the key building blocks of Indian-ness or Indian identity are: an ideology around personal and especially family relationships that derives from the institution of the joint family, a view of social relations profoundly influenced by the institution of caste, an image of the human body and bodily processes that is based on the medical system of Ayurveda, a cultural imagination teeming with shared myths and legends, especially from the epics of Ramayana and Mahabharata, a "romantic" vision of human life (in contrast to a more "ironic" vision prevalent in the West), a special Indian cast to the mind that prefers a relativistic, contextual way of thinking. ..... By contrast, the Western image is of a clearly etched body, sharply differentiated from the rest of the objects in the universe. This vision of the body as a safe stronghold with a limited number of drawbridges that maintain a tenuous contact with the outside world has its own cultural consequences. In Western discourse, both scientific and artistic, there is considerable preoccupation with what is going on within the fortress of the individual body. "

In "Western science, Eastern minds", published in 1991, Kakar wrote that Freudian psychology is NOT universal because the Indian (as well as Chinese and Japanese) psyche has a different history:
Kakar: The model of man Western types of psychotherapy is uniquely a product of the post-Enlightenment period in Western history. ....All Western therapies talk, in some fashion or other, about the growth, development, and self-actualization of the individual. They talk of increasing the individual's environmental mastery, his positive attitudes toward himself, and his sense of autonomy.

[...] Indian patients, like Chinese and Japanese, have in their minds what might be called a relational model of the self, which is quite different from the individual model of the post-Enlightenment West. In Asia, the person derives his nature or character interpersonally. He is constituted of relationships. His distresses are thus disorders of relationships not only within his human- and this is important- but also his natural and cosmic orders. The need for attachment, connection, and integration with others and with his natural and supernatural worlds...

Rajiv comment: Problem with many such Indian postcolonial scholars is the double facedness depending on who the target reader is and where a given sponsorship comes from. ...They might be called "useful Indians" just as there were useful Blacks, and useful bhadralok in colonial bengal. Kakar's writings as Wendy Doniger's co-author, life long collaborator and staunch supporter tell a different story. To nuance Freud and Indianize the application of the ideas is very much his genre. Most postcolonialists who attack the colonial enterprise are encouraged by the Western academy to do so as part of the aura of "being balanced" - something Indians have not understood because Indians tend to lack similar nuance in their own thinking. Indians look for blatant hatred as the mark of an opponent. This assumes that the opponent comes wearing horns on his head."

Surya adds:
"Kakar's explanations are jarring and offensive but his general point that Indians are centered on family and extended connectedness is not off the mark.
Kakar's offensiveness comes from his wanting to depict India in Western categories. He should read BD about non-translatables and study how the Chinese now depict China in Chinese non-translatables and not in Western non-translatables. But then again, Kakar is probably aware of this but sold his Indian face for a price to Western voices.

Chinese reversing the gaze
At a recent lecture at Peking University, renowned linguist Gu Zhengkun explained that wenming describes a high level of ethics and gentleness of a people, while the English word "civilization"derives from urban people's mastery over materials and technology.

The correct Chinese translation of civilization should be chengshi jishu zhuyi. Wenming is better,but untranslatable. It has been around for some thousand years, while Europe's notion of"civilization" is a late 18th century "invention".

Tourists and imperialists do not come to be taught. They never run out of material because it is a trick, a language trick: China indeed has no concept of "privacy" or "love". Why? Because those are Western words, steeped in Western history. On the other hand, Chinese tradition has the concepts of siren and ren'ai, which have no corresponding words in Western languages.

"Democracy" is a concept of Greek origin. The Hellenic "civilization" failed a long time ago, of course. It's gone, while China's wenming is still here, uninterrupted, after 5,000 years. "Democracy" originally had little to do with letting the mob vote, even less so for the mob to rule the country. On the contrary, it meant that various, powerful interest groups should fight over the resources, each mobilizing its supporters of influential city dwellers.

While in China we still see a family-value based social order, in the West the order is based on interest groups. You do not apply strict laws or make contracts in your family, instead you induce a moral code. Laws are needed for strangers, interest groups that fight against other interestgroups and cannot be trusted like family members...."

Poonam responds:
"I recently heard someone in India say this in a public speech,"America has a nationalized family & a privatized government." I am one of the Indians educated in the western ways, & mocked the Indian joint family system, till I actually experienced it. There are problems, I won't deny. But the benefits were so much more that my children, who are now grown up, are really upset that they are not able to provide the same experience to their children. That was a great safety net for the society, & the joint family system was a great schooling in the art & science of relationships, a great educating ground for that. I find that in the west, the people have a great problem grasping the concept."

January 18
dalit freedom network at it again
Utsav: I went and watched a pre-screening of the movie "Not Today" on January 17, 2013 at a Church auditorium in downtown Washington DC. Working in partnership with...

Ravi:
A short trailer from this DFN propaganda movie "Not Today" can be seen in the middle of this Christian Broadcasting Network (CBN) Video


January 18
Hindu-Muslim divide didn't exist in Mughul India
Ganesh: I'm attaching a link to one of the articles that appeared in 18Jan2013 edition of Times of India. The views expressed were in relation to setting up of a Tipu University in Karnataka in line with Aligarh Muslim University. For all political reasons the issue is getting major secular backing. And Times of India went out and published this article initially with the heading "Tipu Sultan University comes under Sharp attack" which seems to have subsequently changed to

"Why Tipu Sultan university is a bone of contention among parties in Karnataka?"

In connection with this ToI published this view by William Dalrymple..

Here's a latest interview with William Dalrymple that appeared in the 20Jan2013

edition of ToI
There one question by Times of India about the raging debate in Karnataka over the Tipu University issue for which William Dalyrmple uses the word "White Moghul" to describe Tipu. Somehow I get the feeling that these self proclaimed Indian liberals holding fort in media and academia are hell bent on re-writing Indian history in a manner that suits them..."

[our own celebrity thread, not surprisingly, generated a lot of comments] January 18
Confused celebrities who are intellectually deficient, ashamed of be
Here is a typical example of a confused celebrity who is intellectually deficient and appears to be ashamed of being different (no pun intended). Shaan (a.k.a....

Surya responds to a comment:
"Viswa writes "Being comfortable with one's own faith, with the faith of others - that IS BEING HINDU."

That is acceptable in the following sense: Hindus accept other religions with a sense of mutual respect. When they go to Dargah or Church, it is a demonstration of their explicit acceptance that other people can have their own beliefs and still be respected. One cannot take it any farther....

What is the point of someone going to Dargah or Church if he is Hindu? How does it enhance his spiritual growth? It does not. However, it is a fact that many Hindus go to Dargah or Church to pray. They clearly are taking an illogical, non-discriminating stance. Why do they do this? Just hedging their position by praying to God everywhere - a non-intellectual pragmatism similar to Pascal's wager."

Viswa responds: "... This is not to answer on behalf of Shaan or SRK. This is just offering a plausible explanation as to why someone comfortable with one's own religion may also visit other's places of worship. None tries to substitute one structure with the other...."

Jalan responds:
"I do not have a problem with Shaan going to a Masjid, Church, etc. What does annoy me is that while the Hindu does not miss one chance to report (with a degree of dubious pride) his immense catholicity in areas where it is desired (respect to non-Hindu religions and symbols) he miserably lacks the element of assertiveness in areas where assertiveness is desired (e.g., exclusivity claims, conversions, etc.) Now unless the latter is there, I class the former not as true catholicity, but as a form of cowardice and tamas....If not, then his catholic expression is doing more harm to Hinduism than good. Citing SV in Shaan's defence thus may be premature."

Sumant responds:
"I think Jalan makes a very important point. True catholicity of views in one's spiritual quest comes from inner strength. Swami Vivekananda and Gandhiji are only two examples of this inner strength and clarity, amongst many, many others, in the Hindu fold. And because of that they never shied away from opposing proselytization based on deceipt and a hatred of Hinduism based on ignorance. This is to be differentiated from a show of catholicity that springs from a colonially-induced inferiority complex. Would a man professing such a catholicity object to Hindu-hate professed by so many churches, for example ? That would be the real test..."

Narasimhan responds:
"I wudn't think that Shaan is not being apologetic about his religion.His religion is Hinduism, and by saying that he belongs to the religion of humanity, he is saying that he does not conform to some traditional form of Hinduism that may be limiting him.He says his wife is an AryaSamaji. I wud think that an AryaSamaji knows something of the Satyartha Prakash authored by the founder of Arya Samaj, Dayanand Saraswathi. The latter critiqued the religions like Christianity and Islam, but how is it that the AryaSamaji wife has symbols of these religions? I wud therefore think that Shaan and his wife are a bundle of contradictions, which however they tout as a sign of their 'humanity'."

Wadhwa adds:
".....Unfortunately, Arya Samaj which once brought a revolutionary change in raising Hindus spiritually and morally by reviving true and progressive Vedic values is gradually losing its original spirit. This is happening because some of its members 'without realising depth of Vedic wisdom' have joined the 'sameness bandwagon'. What will happen to amorphous beliefs and identity of others who are trying to sit between two stools?"

Rohit adds:
"All this does not change the fact that one cannot simultaneously believe in incompatible belief systems. It is illogical.....
SRK, on the other hand, reads the Quran and is a devout Muslim. You can rest assured that he does not recite Gayatri Mantra with his kids. Why do his kids read the mantra then? Same as Salman Khan and Aamir Khan. Because their mother
is Hindu.
Historically, these "gaps" get normalized in a couple of generations.

Think of Aurangazeb, son of Shah Jahan. Shah Jahan was milder towards Hindus as his mother and grand mother were Hindus. Apparently, this "kindness to Hindus" is not a transitive property....."

Venkat shares:
"1. Sri Vishwa Ghosh claims "Being comfortable with one’s own faith, with the faith of others – that IS BEING HINDU." However what we read in the article is that Shantanu Mukherjee explicitly rejects his ancestral faith Hinduism and embraces the Humanity religion, whatever it means.

2. There is no harm in exploring other beliefs. But one has to be anchored in one's own beliefs first, which does seem to be in Shaan's case. As an analogy, one should be well versed in one's own language and then go on to explore other languages. Knowing a little bit of English, Hindi, French and advocating the same to the children will leave them confused, weak in all languages, more so in the mother tongue..and what will/can they pass on to their own children? Most likely the dominant language English and all Western culture/religion
brings with it, so it is tata bye bye to their own mother tongue. The same will happen with religions as well.

3. Something many writers here missed. It appears that Shaan is actually a Christian than a Hindu. Look at what he writes. he Christian association comes stands out:
" I had a secular upbringing as my mother would keep images of Mother Mary, the Kaba as well as Radha-Krishna in the mandir in our home. "
"I used to study at Stanislaus High School, a Jesuit institution and would wear a cross around my neck."
"I visit the Mount Mary's Church or a dargah or a temple whenever I feel"
"I visited sometime ago, I visited all those places that were
connected to Jesus Christ."
On the other hand we don't see him talk much about Hinduism. The Ganesh idols he receives only as "gifts" So they seem to be beautiful furniture pieces only
It is his mother's influence they have havans, not his. And he
downplays them. "But we are not bound by religion to do a havan at home" The only silver lining and and Hindu influence seems to be his arya samaj wife.

3. An unmistakable lesson here is that Convent school education Christianize our people while dehinduising them.
The take home message of the whole article is that parents should become aware of the highly corrosive impact of convent school indoctrination and ensure (among other things) that their children are not enrolled in such schools..."

January 19
Thorsten Pattberg's Review of Being Different
Worthwhile review to read: Rajiv Malhotra, Hinduism, and the Challenge to Western Universalism or ‘The Importance of Being Non-Western?’ "BEIJING- ‘Being... "


Manish responds: Excellent review. Captures the nuances pretty well.

The best thing is that it accepts the term "poorva paksha" as it is. The reviewer is living BD !!